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I'm so grateful to my private clients here who have agreed to give me feedback. A selection of their comments is shown below, reflecting my more general work.
Please note: Maintaining client privacy and confidentiality is always a priority for me. I therefore do not show client names/identity. Most trauma work prior to 2023 has been with clients referred by the social, health, education, and criminal justice sectors - and therefore no feedback is published for these clients. |
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“Phil released a writer’s block I had been living with all my life. It took him less than an hour and now I am up at 5 every morning with the joy of writing.”
Writer and Published Author
“Phil’s raft of tools and techniques has brought about dramatic and speedy improvements in my professional performance and personal life. The timeline exercises in particular have made me more effective in my work whilst increasing the level and quality of energy. The two months (eight telephone sessions) I booked could be the best investment I have made so far. Even my wife is impressed!!”
Sales Director
“Phil’s gentle approach set me on a journey that is proving very profitable, both spiritually and financially.”
Creative Director of London Advertising Agency
“The course was skills based and provided lots of opportunities in small groups to practice the core skills. Phil is an inspirational trainer with lots of enthusiasm and the course certainly reaches the parts that ‘other training doesn’t reach’. I knew very little about EFT at the start of training but at the end I have a thirst to find out as much as I can. EFT is a real energiser and effective tool in promoting and releasing human potential. The training is quite unique and I would recommend it to all.”
Social Worker
Indeed, Sarah discussed the situation with us before she emailed you and we are both happy to go along with her wishes. Sarah is also bringing her sessions with the social worker to an end. She seems so much lighter in spirit and more at home with herself and with things around her. She sleeps much better and communicates with us somewhat better. It has been weeks since any self-harming incident or even, she tells me, thoughts of self-harming. We recognise Sarah has worked hard at this but also are so grateful for all you have done. We would highly recommend Eft, and your services in particular, to any other family in a similar situation.
Mother of teenage girl following 4 telephone sessions (18 months of self harming)
‘This whole exercise (audio exercise) has stunned me, I was surprised just how honest I could be with myself!’
Time and Recovery Worker
“Phil. How’s things with you? I thought I’d better drop you a line to say .. that we have now been on 3 flights (12 hrs, 4 & 4) and I am doing very well and enjoying landings especially. We’re now in Melbourne .. so I am VERY grateful.”
Business Consultant who’d had a phobia about flying
“All sessions were very rewarding. Phil Reed is a sensitive and intuitive coach with a great sense of humour – I believe a must in coaching! I found Phil has the ability to create a clear and safe platform in which to approach any challenging painful issues or limiting beliefs in a supportive and professional manner. I always felt ‘different’ after the sessions. Sometimes a complex mixture of emotions and thoughts and sometimes I was left calm and clear-headed. There was never any doubt in my mind with regards to the effect of our sessions. It was always positive change. Phil is a unique coach whose primary focus is my change, interested in finding the most effective tools and skills that can be used to inspire change.”
Artist
“The length of the course was perfect – I don’t think I would have taken in the information in one day. It was a really fruitful and enriching weekend, something I know I will continue to use personally and professionally.”
Primary Teacher
"Phil! I'm not facing the door!!"
Former member of the Armed Forces, who with complex PTSD, for many years had been virtually housebound & unable to work. Previously hypervigilant, his realisation and exclamation - during his 2nd session - was the turning point in his recovery. Within 10 weeks, he was holding down full time employment.
“I really enjoyed working with you. I felt very safe and valued, it was a lovely experience! You created a space that felt very safe, nourishing and life enhancing. I don’t know who else you work with but they are very fortunate to have you!”
Director of Training and Business Coach
“Phil, you’re amazing! Things went really well on Friday, I’ve still some work to do, but hey, thanks to you, I think I’m on track!”
Health Professional
“Thank you so much for all your help especially for the time you take out to listen to me. I believe that counselling would have steered me left or right but you allowed me to walk forward. I really do appreciate your help and look forward to our next session.”
University student who had been raped
“There have been some very tangible results and much of this stems from the work we did together, so .. THANK YOU! “
Training Manager. Cosmetics House
Phil is a talented coach and a kind and understanding man. Although we worked through many difficult issues, the sessions were always a real joy.”
City Professional
“Hi Phil, Thank you for your e-mail – it is going really well. I can’t believe how much better I feel already. I had to go to the dentist today and have 5 fillings and I just kept doing the EFT technique and I felt instantly at ease. As far as Ambulances go I feel a lot better – I am not thinking about them everyday now like I was before and I did see one today with flashing blue sirens and laughed – my stomach did go a bit funny but then I was fine!”
Personal Assistant, following 1 x one hour telephone EFT session for lifelong phobias/fears – before follow-up calls
“A man of integrity, commitment and professional pride.”
Senior Police Officer
“Firstly, thanks for a most stimulating session last evening and for confirming the next two Wednesdays .. Until you suggested it I didn’t know I wasn’t ‘there’; I went to bed grinning and thankful and have been looking for confirming clues all day—-I have been in a daze all day unable to focus, relate, remember pin numbers, or function well but still managing to bang my head on a shelf; no clues there is this typical after a profound shift or is it a symptom of the shift still in process? But I now agree I’m probably a nudge away from cracking this one ——but I haven’t any idea what it will take now to break through! I did not expect the session to be so deep or take the turns it did, so what could be next?”
Marketing Consultant
“I would like to thank you for all your help during the last few months when we worked together. You are an excellent coach largely because you possess those key attributes of being able to listen to your clients, challenge them on their issues and responses, and have the ability to put them into positions where they are the ones who actually come up with the answers. But more than that, you are a really nice guy – a gentleman, a friend, a counsellor, someone you feel you can trust.”
Marketing Consultant
"So, we’ve definitely re-coded the nasty childhood memories and put them in proportion with every other experience. Thank you! Clearly you’re a phobia superstar! “
IT Training Manager
“Thanks Phil, I passed my motorbike test with a clean sheet, the second person in the history of my well established training school to do so! I’m an Advanced EFT practitioner and throughout learning to ride I had been using EFT and NLP techniques to improve my ability on the bike. I didn’t find learning to ride came naturally to me and found myself frustrated a lot of the time which I used the techniques on. I went into my first test confident until it came to a particular manoeuvre and I just didn’t believe I could complete it on that particular road and of course because of that I didn’t pass my test and it completely knocked my confidence over that particular manoeuvre. It wasn’t about my physical ability as I could do this manoeuvre again and again but sometimes I just had a mental block which lead me to messing it up.
The week before my second test, I decided it was time to get outside help and as I had trained with Phil, I knew he was an excellent practitioner and a person I felt comfortable with and trusted; and, as I found out during our session, an ex police driver – I couldn’t have wished for a more qualified person to work with! Phil taught me a couple of techniques I didn’t know and used EFT around my belief around the manoeuvre in a test situation and the memory of my test. We went through my next test step by step until I felt confident I could do this manoeuvre.
The next day I passed my test with a clean sheet (I received no marks against me). This was not through natural ability but through practise and my work with Phil. I’m continually inspired by the things you can achieve by using these techniques. Thanks again, Phil.”
Advanced EFT Practitioner
Just wanted to say thank you for the terrific course this weekend. I thoroughly enjoyed the experience & met some wonderful people there, including your lovely self! I hope to go tapping as soon as possible & will make every effort to tap for myself at least daily if not more often. .. .. Again, thank you for this unforgettable weekend course – Roquefort cheese will never have the same power over me. Must get tapping now.
Hypnotherapist & Counsellor
OH MY GOODNESS! I barely skipped a beat, I can’t believe it. I was nervous beforehand and thought I was going to be sick at one point but as soon as my breath felt like it was going to get out of control it suddenly just calmed down, that was really weird. When I actually went in I felt nervous but it felt like normal nerves – not at all debilitating, and as I went on I was able to remain calm, take my time, go back if I realised I missed something without having a panic about it and take questions.
Thank you so much Phil, that was really amazing. I’m almost looking forward to the next one so I can keep trying it out!
Am going to carry on with my ‘homework’ and try to find another excuse to do a presentation soon, I’m not kidding myself that I don’t need to do any more work to deal with it, but I’m amazed that I had such a positive experience today and I’m going to build on that. Thanks again, wow, still in shock (in a nice way)!
Media Manager
Thanks for the part you played in starting me on this journey – you’ve really made a difference.
Business Director
‘I signed up for your mini-course which I am enjoying and finding beautifully clear.’
Teacher
“Phil has a unique gift – an ability to empathise with and understand people as individuals, and to put them at ease from the very first moment. This is undoubtedly why he is so successful – he has to be one of the best in his field – and why I would have no hesitation in recommending him to anyone who wants to move forward in their life in a positive way.”
Education Qualification Manager
“Working with Phil has been an illuminating, helpful and insightful experience. He is such a giving individual and that has been a quality that has permeated all of the time we have spent together. Phil has been one of the most magical people I have met in my life. He is a gifted human being and whoever has the opportunity to work with him is a very lucky individual. Thank you Phil.”
Deputy Head Teacher
“Just thought you might like to know that I got a A* for my science test. That is 25% of my final mark and is really great. My science teachers have suggested that I sit an As first module Physics in January one year before I should. That is really great news don’t you think? Thanks Again.”
Student diagnosed with dyslexia, after one 90 minute session. He'd previously been predicted d/e grades – but ended up with 10 grade A GCSE’s!
“I did what you said the night before and the dance class on Monday was cool – no problem. I couldn’t believe it! To be honest I don’t know what I was worrying about – and it was even better the next week. I am very grateful to you Phil.”
15 yr old Dance student who had lost all confidence
“Phil ... became my personal coach when I needed support to make some radical and painful changes to my life. He is a gentle giant, an extraordinarily peaceful and humorous man with whom I felt completely safe to express my thoughts and confusions. Through his help I made substantial shifts in my mindset which meant that the difficult decisions I had to make were suddenly not difficult at all. I would recommend him to anyone who finds they are stuck and struggling to achieve the goals they set themselves.”
Creative/Business Strategist
“Definitely left me wanting more!” As far as comments regarding the day, I was very impressed with it and enjoyed it very much – well done! The format kept people awake and involved. There were many areas which cross into schools and current thinking on how children learn. Accelerated learning, multiple intelligence’s and much much more.”
Head Teacher on a one day workshop
Thank you SO MUCH for such enjoyable sessions, I feel like I have blown away a huge thunderstorm and have let through rays of sunshine in my life!
Business Innovation Project Manager & Learning Designer
‘The Fear of Compassion’ workshop:
“I found this course to be incredibly beneficial and successful and a joy to do. I really enjoyed learning about the theories and doing the exercises – the content was both relevant and helpful to me. Thank you Phil for putting together the course; it is amazing – so well done. I’m feeling far more at peace with myself and far more compassionate with myself and others, so its a RESULT!”
Business Enterprise Manager. London Secondary School
“I had a brilliant weekend; a lot of very practical, hands on exercises and tips. Phil has this wonderful way to make us feel secure, and at ease – encouraging us to explore the different ‘hidden’ parts of our shy but precious compassionate self. Thank you for such an inspiring course.”
Touch Therapist
“I find each time I do a session with Phil, I leave with a positive attitude. I find this course useful and necessary for everyone to keep a balanced life and be happy within themselves.”
Teaching Assistant. London Secondary School
“I have been in the presence of a master! The course has been truly beneficial.”
Landscape Gardener
“Exciting course that pulls together many different ways of shifting thinking and feeling without feeling personally exposed or going into story. Lots of fun. Very big thank you for a number of light bulb moments and in raising my curiosity to really want to continue on this journey.”
Social Work Manager
Writer and Published Author
“Phil’s raft of tools and techniques has brought about dramatic and speedy improvements in my professional performance and personal life. The timeline exercises in particular have made me more effective in my work whilst increasing the level and quality of energy. The two months (eight telephone sessions) I booked could be the best investment I have made so far. Even my wife is impressed!!”
Sales Director
“Phil’s gentle approach set me on a journey that is proving very profitable, both spiritually and financially.”
Creative Director of London Advertising Agency
“The course was skills based and provided lots of opportunities in small groups to practice the core skills. Phil is an inspirational trainer with lots of enthusiasm and the course certainly reaches the parts that ‘other training doesn’t reach’. I knew very little about EFT at the start of training but at the end I have a thirst to find out as much as I can. EFT is a real energiser and effective tool in promoting and releasing human potential. The training is quite unique and I would recommend it to all.”
Social Worker
Indeed, Sarah discussed the situation with us before she emailed you and we are both happy to go along with her wishes. Sarah is also bringing her sessions with the social worker to an end. She seems so much lighter in spirit and more at home with herself and with things around her. She sleeps much better and communicates with us somewhat better. It has been weeks since any self-harming incident or even, she tells me, thoughts of self-harming. We recognise Sarah has worked hard at this but also are so grateful for all you have done. We would highly recommend Eft, and your services in particular, to any other family in a similar situation.
Mother of teenage girl following 4 telephone sessions (18 months of self harming)
‘This whole exercise (audio exercise) has stunned me, I was surprised just how honest I could be with myself!’
Time and Recovery Worker
“Phil. How’s things with you? I thought I’d better drop you a line to say .. that we have now been on 3 flights (12 hrs, 4 & 4) and I am doing very well and enjoying landings especially. We’re now in Melbourne .. so I am VERY grateful.”
Business Consultant who’d had a phobia about flying
“All sessions were very rewarding. Phil Reed is a sensitive and intuitive coach with a great sense of humour – I believe a must in coaching! I found Phil has the ability to create a clear and safe platform in which to approach any challenging painful issues or limiting beliefs in a supportive and professional manner. I always felt ‘different’ after the sessions. Sometimes a complex mixture of emotions and thoughts and sometimes I was left calm and clear-headed. There was never any doubt in my mind with regards to the effect of our sessions. It was always positive change. Phil is a unique coach whose primary focus is my change, interested in finding the most effective tools and skills that can be used to inspire change.”
Artist
“The length of the course was perfect – I don’t think I would have taken in the information in one day. It was a really fruitful and enriching weekend, something I know I will continue to use personally and professionally.”
Primary Teacher
"Phil! I'm not facing the door!!"
Former member of the Armed Forces, who with complex PTSD, for many years had been virtually housebound & unable to work. Previously hypervigilant, his realisation and exclamation - during his 2nd session - was the turning point in his recovery. Within 10 weeks, he was holding down full time employment.
“I really enjoyed working with you. I felt very safe and valued, it was a lovely experience! You created a space that felt very safe, nourishing and life enhancing. I don’t know who else you work with but they are very fortunate to have you!”
Director of Training and Business Coach
“Phil, you’re amazing! Things went really well on Friday, I’ve still some work to do, but hey, thanks to you, I think I’m on track!”
Health Professional
“Thank you so much for all your help especially for the time you take out to listen to me. I believe that counselling would have steered me left or right but you allowed me to walk forward. I really do appreciate your help and look forward to our next session.”
University student who had been raped
“There have been some very tangible results and much of this stems from the work we did together, so .. THANK YOU! “
Training Manager. Cosmetics House
Phil is a talented coach and a kind and understanding man. Although we worked through many difficult issues, the sessions were always a real joy.”
City Professional
“Hi Phil, Thank you for your e-mail – it is going really well. I can’t believe how much better I feel already. I had to go to the dentist today and have 5 fillings and I just kept doing the EFT technique and I felt instantly at ease. As far as Ambulances go I feel a lot better – I am not thinking about them everyday now like I was before and I did see one today with flashing blue sirens and laughed – my stomach did go a bit funny but then I was fine!”
Personal Assistant, following 1 x one hour telephone EFT session for lifelong phobias/fears – before follow-up calls
“A man of integrity, commitment and professional pride.”
Senior Police Officer
“Firstly, thanks for a most stimulating session last evening and for confirming the next two Wednesdays .. Until you suggested it I didn’t know I wasn’t ‘there’; I went to bed grinning and thankful and have been looking for confirming clues all day—-I have been in a daze all day unable to focus, relate, remember pin numbers, or function well but still managing to bang my head on a shelf; no clues there is this typical after a profound shift or is it a symptom of the shift still in process? But I now agree I’m probably a nudge away from cracking this one ——but I haven’t any idea what it will take now to break through! I did not expect the session to be so deep or take the turns it did, so what could be next?”
Marketing Consultant
“I would like to thank you for all your help during the last few months when we worked together. You are an excellent coach largely because you possess those key attributes of being able to listen to your clients, challenge them on their issues and responses, and have the ability to put them into positions where they are the ones who actually come up with the answers. But more than that, you are a really nice guy – a gentleman, a friend, a counsellor, someone you feel you can trust.”
Marketing Consultant
"So, we’ve definitely re-coded the nasty childhood memories and put them in proportion with every other experience. Thank you! Clearly you’re a phobia superstar! “
IT Training Manager
“Thanks Phil, I passed my motorbike test with a clean sheet, the second person in the history of my well established training school to do so! I’m an Advanced EFT practitioner and throughout learning to ride I had been using EFT and NLP techniques to improve my ability on the bike. I didn’t find learning to ride came naturally to me and found myself frustrated a lot of the time which I used the techniques on. I went into my first test confident until it came to a particular manoeuvre and I just didn’t believe I could complete it on that particular road and of course because of that I didn’t pass my test and it completely knocked my confidence over that particular manoeuvre. It wasn’t about my physical ability as I could do this manoeuvre again and again but sometimes I just had a mental block which lead me to messing it up.
The week before my second test, I decided it was time to get outside help and as I had trained with Phil, I knew he was an excellent practitioner and a person I felt comfortable with and trusted; and, as I found out during our session, an ex police driver – I couldn’t have wished for a more qualified person to work with! Phil taught me a couple of techniques I didn’t know and used EFT around my belief around the manoeuvre in a test situation and the memory of my test. We went through my next test step by step until I felt confident I could do this manoeuvre.
The next day I passed my test with a clean sheet (I received no marks against me). This was not through natural ability but through practise and my work with Phil. I’m continually inspired by the things you can achieve by using these techniques. Thanks again, Phil.”
Advanced EFT Practitioner
Just wanted to say thank you for the terrific course this weekend. I thoroughly enjoyed the experience & met some wonderful people there, including your lovely self! I hope to go tapping as soon as possible & will make every effort to tap for myself at least daily if not more often. .. .. Again, thank you for this unforgettable weekend course – Roquefort cheese will never have the same power over me. Must get tapping now.
Hypnotherapist & Counsellor
OH MY GOODNESS! I barely skipped a beat, I can’t believe it. I was nervous beforehand and thought I was going to be sick at one point but as soon as my breath felt like it was going to get out of control it suddenly just calmed down, that was really weird. When I actually went in I felt nervous but it felt like normal nerves – not at all debilitating, and as I went on I was able to remain calm, take my time, go back if I realised I missed something without having a panic about it and take questions.
Thank you so much Phil, that was really amazing. I’m almost looking forward to the next one so I can keep trying it out!
Am going to carry on with my ‘homework’ and try to find another excuse to do a presentation soon, I’m not kidding myself that I don’t need to do any more work to deal with it, but I’m amazed that I had such a positive experience today and I’m going to build on that. Thanks again, wow, still in shock (in a nice way)!
Media Manager
Thanks for the part you played in starting me on this journey – you’ve really made a difference.
Business Director
‘I signed up for your mini-course which I am enjoying and finding beautifully clear.’
Teacher
“Phil has a unique gift – an ability to empathise with and understand people as individuals, and to put them at ease from the very first moment. This is undoubtedly why he is so successful – he has to be one of the best in his field – and why I would have no hesitation in recommending him to anyone who wants to move forward in their life in a positive way.”
Education Qualification Manager
“Working with Phil has been an illuminating, helpful and insightful experience. He is such a giving individual and that has been a quality that has permeated all of the time we have spent together. Phil has been one of the most magical people I have met in my life. He is a gifted human being and whoever has the opportunity to work with him is a very lucky individual. Thank you Phil.”
Deputy Head Teacher
“Just thought you might like to know that I got a A* for my science test. That is 25% of my final mark and is really great. My science teachers have suggested that I sit an As first module Physics in January one year before I should. That is really great news don’t you think? Thanks Again.”
Student diagnosed with dyslexia, after one 90 minute session. He'd previously been predicted d/e grades – but ended up with 10 grade A GCSE’s!
“I did what you said the night before and the dance class on Monday was cool – no problem. I couldn’t believe it! To be honest I don’t know what I was worrying about – and it was even better the next week. I am very grateful to you Phil.”
15 yr old Dance student who had lost all confidence
“Phil ... became my personal coach when I needed support to make some radical and painful changes to my life. He is a gentle giant, an extraordinarily peaceful and humorous man with whom I felt completely safe to express my thoughts and confusions. Through his help I made substantial shifts in my mindset which meant that the difficult decisions I had to make were suddenly not difficult at all. I would recommend him to anyone who finds they are stuck and struggling to achieve the goals they set themselves.”
Creative/Business Strategist
“Definitely left me wanting more!” As far as comments regarding the day, I was very impressed with it and enjoyed it very much – well done! The format kept people awake and involved. There were many areas which cross into schools and current thinking on how children learn. Accelerated learning, multiple intelligence’s and much much more.”
Head Teacher on a one day workshop
Thank you SO MUCH for such enjoyable sessions, I feel like I have blown away a huge thunderstorm and have let through rays of sunshine in my life!
Business Innovation Project Manager & Learning Designer
‘The Fear of Compassion’ workshop:
“I found this course to be incredibly beneficial and successful and a joy to do. I really enjoyed learning about the theories and doing the exercises – the content was both relevant and helpful to me. Thank you Phil for putting together the course; it is amazing – so well done. I’m feeling far more at peace with myself and far more compassionate with myself and others, so its a RESULT!”
Business Enterprise Manager. London Secondary School
“I had a brilliant weekend; a lot of very practical, hands on exercises and tips. Phil has this wonderful way to make us feel secure, and at ease – encouraging us to explore the different ‘hidden’ parts of our shy but precious compassionate self. Thank you for such an inspiring course.”
Touch Therapist
“I find each time I do a session with Phil, I leave with a positive attitude. I find this course useful and necessary for everyone to keep a balanced life and be happy within themselves.”
Teaching Assistant. London Secondary School
“I have been in the presence of a master! The course has been truly beneficial.”
Landscape Gardener
“Exciting course that pulls together many different ways of shifting thinking and feeling without feeling personally exposed or going into story. Lots of fun. Very big thank you for a number of light bulb moments and in raising my curiosity to really want to continue on this journey.”
Social Work Manager
