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HELPFUL
PRINCIPLES
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Behind every behaviour is a positive intention. The part of us that drives behaviour always does this with our higher good in mind; it can however make mistakes. To change behaviour we need first to start by gaining the trust of this part; we do this by unconditionally respecting its good intention.

Your current behaviour is the best choice possible for you at this time. We act according to our present beliefs about ourselves and others – which we can choose to change at any time.

You already have all the resources you need. What we all need is access to these resources at appropriate times and places. 

It is easier to change yourself than others. We're entirely responsible for our own happiness.

Choice is better than no choice. One choice is no choice; two choices present a dilemma; three or more choices bring real choice.

We are doing the best we can, given the choices we believe are available to us – but there are lots of other choices that we’re not aware of. We always operate according to our internal map of reality. When we enhance our maps,  we access more choice in how to best be and interact with others.


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In whichever context I'm working and by whatever (often provocative and playful) means, my intention is always to encourage curiosity around the power of personal insight and innate resilience.

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